LOVE the Psychology of Attraction

LOVE the Psychology of Attraction  download pdfLOVE the Psychology of Attraction: A practical guide to successful dating and a happy relationship

CONTENTS

CHAPTER 1
YOU/ ARE YOU READY FOR LOVE?

  • Evolution calling/ Why we fall in love?
  • Secure, anxious, or avoidant / What’s your style?
  • Clashing expectations/ When insecure types gee together?
  • Great expectations/Mental images of ourselves and other people
  • Thinking straight/ How not to talk yourself down?
  • Let’s lall in love/ How susceptible are you?
  • Why do I never learn? / The secrect of repeating patterns
  • Giving up your independence?/ How to balance autonomy and connection
  • Your own worst enemy?/ How mental habits hinder or help
  • You deserve the best/ Healthy positive thinking
  • Extrovert or Introvert?/ Where you draw energy from
  • A little help from your friends/ Platonic lessons in love
  • Be honest with me/ Getting help from your loved ones
  • I always go for…/ You and your type
  • The scent of chemistry/ How smell works on our feelings
  •  Smile please/ The bond of humor
  • Wishing on a star / When you need to listen to yourself
  • Give yourself a break/ Coping with the lonely times

CHAPTER 2
THE SEARCH/ FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON FOR YOU

  • On the lookout/ Getting out there
  • Hey world, I’m available!/ Sending out the night signals
  • We met on the bus/ The chance encounter
  • I like you, but…/ Is friendship all that’s available?
  • Across a crowded office/ The pros and cons of dating at work
  • Would like to meet…/ Navigating the personal ads
  • The five-minute mile/ Speed dating
  • Dating on the Internet/ The strange woild of infinite choice
  • Signing up online/ Creating a profile
  •  Just a click away/ Starting a conversation
  • From profile to person/ Turning a chat into a date
  • Keeping it safe/ Meeting up in comfort
  • Hiding in plain sight/ Meeting through friends
  • Hey, have you met…?/ When friends play matchmaker
  • Next time lucky?/ Dating after divorce

CHAPTER 3
DATING/ MAKING IT WORK

  • Picking a winner/ The first date
  • Looking the part/ How to put your best face forward
  • It’s going to be fine/ Confidence-building exercises
  • Stress-free first dates/  Where’s the best place to start?
  • Everyone loves a good listener/ The ait of active communication
  • Shrinking violets/ Coping with shyness
  • Talking the talk/ Getting a good conversation going
  • You don’t have to say anything/ Body language tips
  •  I’m so embarrassed/ How to keep your cool
  •  Five add tests/ How to assess your new date
  •  Emotional Intelligence/ What it is and why it matters
  • Spotting a serial dater/ Who they are and why they doit
  • Someone like you?/ When qualities in common help, and when they don’t
  • Counting the years/ Do age gaps really matter?
  • Worth a second date?/ Who should you see again?
  •  Juggling prospects/ When there’s more than one person on the horizon
  • Secrets and confessions/ How to broach delicate subjects
  • Saying it with flowers/ Gift giving and what it means

CHAPTER 4
ESTABLISHING/ THE RELATIONSHIP FROM ATTRACTION TO COMMITMENT

  • Fast track, slow track/ Getting the pace nght for you
  •  Know your boundaries/ How to keep your limits healthy
  •  Nipping it in the bud/ How to stop a small problem turning into a big one
  • Off to bed—or not/ Passing that major threshold
  •  Driving you crazy/ The power of the unreliable
  • Reluctant fire/ The power of excitement
  • Is this love or lust?/ Listening to your hormones
  • Spotting real danger/ Warning signs of an abuser
  • If the F word is “family”/ The delicate issue of children
  • A ready-made family/ Dating with children
  • Overlapping your circles/ Meeting each other’s friends
  • But I miss you so/ How much time together is right?
  • So are we a couple now?/ The transition to commitment
  • The L word/ Talking about love
  • Here’s your key/ Moving in together
  • I’ll call you every night/ Managing a long distance relationship 
  • Semi-happy endings/ Finishing things cleanly 
  • Do you or don’t you?/ Time to talk about marriage 
  • Popping the question/ The art of the proposal

CHAPTER 5
TOGETHER/ ON THE ROAD TO LASTING LOVE

  •  Are we going to last?/ What your conversations predict
  • Staying connected/ Little exercises in happiness
  • The power of vulnerability/ Taking a risk on true understanding
  •  You bring out the best in me/ The Michelangelo effect
  • Two halves, or two wholes?/ How to avoid getting stuck m stereotypes
  • The worst ideas of all/ What you really must avoid
  • Arguing like grown-ups/ How to communicate, not manipulate
  • A good clean fight/ How to argue and move on
  • Career pressures/ Maintaining equality in a confusing world
  • The child-free life/ Choosing not to have children
  • Stop hogging the covers! /Sharing a bed
  • Trying for a baby/ Keeping it fun when things get serious
  • Baby on the way/ Staying sexual during pregnancy
  •  A united front/ How to share parenung without going crazy
  • Parents’ date night/ Having some fun in the few spare moments
  • See you at sex o’clock/ Making time for sex
  • Keeping the spark/ Burning long and burning bright

INDEX

Language: English
Format: PDF
Pages: 226
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